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Being a woman!


I'M PROUD TO BE A WOMEN
BEING A WOMEN IS A BLESSING

I have read these sentences like a 1000 times today but let me tell you the whole truth. Being a woman, no wait, firstly being a girl you shouldn't worry about your carrier or future goals and dreams, what you need to worry about is what to wear today! This may sound funny but trust me this isn't. You may make fun of a girl spending lots of time to think what to wear or what to buy, you know why? Because before thinking how she is actually looking, she thinks what others (mainly society) will think if she wears what she wears. She worries about being judged and marked as a shameless girl, not because she worries about everyone’s opinions, but because her mother worries.

Secondly , when it comes to selecting a carrier , they say you can choose whatever you want or like , but modeling , acting , singing , dancing, fashion designing, aren't available options because "LOG KYA KAHENGE". Or lets say being a chef, photographer, painter, computer engineer, even they are rarely available because "VO SARE KAAM TO LADKO K HAI”.

The whole point of women empowerment is of no use, because in the end, no matter what you do, how well you do, being a girl means you will be judged! And you can't do anything about it. Or you can.

You can be a mother who will trust her daughter before society, you can be a brother who encourages his sister, you can be a husband who will support his wife, and you can be the son/daughter who will always respect his /her mother. You are the society and you can change it!

The change is needed. Girls deserves everything the boy child gets, and not just in the constitution or stories but in real life too. Being women isn't about being proud of yourself, it's about being strong.

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